How to become charismatic

Self-confidence self-confidence

is an integral attribute of a charismatic man. Surrounding people see that the man does not doubt himself and his actions and are drawn to him. Be positive, start a conversation with those that are interesting to others, interest them in your conversation. The big mistake is to have conversations rebuking or condemning anyone. Such conversations initially create a negative atmosphere and repel interlocutors.

Don’t doubt your words, speak with certainty. Keep a calm tone and pace of conversation, focus on important words, increasing the rhythm or volume of your voice. Speak clearly and clearly. To test your confidence, write your speech on a voice recorder and listen to it.

Body language

A
person’s confidence and comfort read well by his body language. Wrong movements always give out an insecure, shy and hesitant person. It is important to behave in a way that does not have doubts about your confidence in your words and actions. Entering an unfamiliar room or getting into the environment of strangers to you, go a firm gait and hold your posture, this is the first thing that gives out an insecure person. Greeting someone, meet them with a strong handshake, smile and look directly in the eye. In conversation, stand or sit face-to-face with the interviewee, keep your hands away from your face and do not cross them on your chest.

Train your body language while standing in front of a mirror. Pretend that you’re talking to anyone and follow your actions.

Raise the self-esteem of interlocutors

The
charismatic man is distinguished by the ability to speak to any person on any topic. He knows how to listen, give confidence to whoever he speaks to, make him feel like the center of the universe. Don’t elevate yourself to the interlocutor, don’t interrupt him. At the same time, don’t let him feel superior over himself, respect him, but be equal to him.

Be genuinely interested in the life and affairs of the interlocutor, but don’t be intrusive. Make him feel your interest in the conversation. Always remember the names of your interlocutors. Without forgetting the man’s name, you’ll elevate his own significance when you meet him next time.

Charaismatiousness does not mean that other people just enjoy communicating with you. Don’t think about what those around you think, be self-sufficient and radiate confidence.

Sense of humor

People are always attracted to witty interlocutors able to make a good joke. A charismatic person should be able to create an atmosphere of fun without making much effort for it. First of all, learn to laugh at yourself, but don’t laugh at your flaws, don’t engage in self-derogation. This skill always evokes the respect of those around him, it is a sign of true charisma. Consider who you speak to when you include a sense of humor. For example, with people dressing loosely and behaving wackedly, sharp jokes can be used. To sensitive people not carrying criticism is a very different approach. Only use harmless and short jokes. Be able to impress others around them, keep their interest in the conversation.

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