Although signs and superstitions gradually move back into the past, many couples prefer to pay tribute to tradition and attach importance to even small details. Undoubtedly, such a serious step as marriage is worth paying attention to signs going back centuries.
The most common sign states that the dress must be new, as it is believed that it can absorb the energy of the bride. If you rent a dress from your girlfriend, buy from your hands, you can cause trouble and problems in the marriage of the previous bride. If the girl giving the dress had quarrels with her spouse, treason and financial problems in the family, then by taking her dress, you can bring on your family these troubles. For the same reason it is not recommended to sell, give or throw out your wedding outfit after the celebration. It too is a bad sign, energy-related things, the bride and her marriage.
Also the bride can’t sew the dress under the crown to herself or trust this business to someone from the family. There is a belief that the bride or her loved ones can “sew up” their happiness and prevent family well-being from taking place.
It is necessary to take into account the style of the dress, for the wedding it is not easy to choose long outfits, as it symbolizes a long and long life together in marriage. Not a one-piece wedding outfit, for example, skirt and top apart, can lead to separate lives, apart, in infidelity and discord. The defiantly deep cleavage and open back symbolize the bride’s windiness and frivolity.
The main element of a wedding dress is its color. And in this regard signs differ, for initially in Ancient Russia it was customary to marry in dresses of red color, which, according to the belief, protected the girl going under the crown, from eyes. Then, influenced by European fashion, dresses for the wedding began to choose white, it symbolized the purity and innocence of the bride. And the red color of wedding outfits has become a symbol of aggression, strife and divorce.
Only minor decoration of the dress with a red detail, such as a belt, is allowed, which bodes well for the newlyweds. And, naturally, in a white dress, it was possible to marry only once, being an innocent girl. Other colors were recommended for subsequent marriages.
absolutely impossible to be on a wedding day wearing black clothing, as it is the color of mourning and sorrow. Black dress will impose widowhood on the girl, or sickness of the spouse. Blue is the color of indifference and indifference, so it is not recommended to choose it as a color for a wedding dress. A grey dress can lead a couple to divorce, green, being a symbol of modesty, will attract money problems to the family.
Blue dress marks marital infidelity, yellow and golden — bodes for the family a lot of tears and sadness. The same meaning is beige or cream, despite the tenderness of the shade. In other opinions, the gold color of the dress bodes for success in the couple’s careers and wealth.
A positive value when choosing flowers for a dress is orange, it foreshadows the newlyweds a poor life and high position in society. Also make marriage successful will help purple and lilac color dresses, suggesting strong and mutual love of the spouses.
Can’t involve relatives in the process of wearing a dress. Helping the bride to wear the wedding dress should be girlfriends. The girlfriend, who is happy in marriage, necessarily need to take some accessory, it can be a brooch, earrings or a hairpin, except the veil and gloves – these things the bride should keep at home. It’s not acceptable to put a dress through your legs, just through your head.
Signs advise you to treat the integrity and cleanliness of the wedding dress, in order to avoid skewering or hardship neighborhood with the evil mother-in-law. Nothing good bodes blood on the dress, so you should avoid prickly objects when trying on and putting on.
If the button still comes off, it needs to be sewn with two stitches. An even number should also be in the number of buttons on the dress. It is advisable to choose an outfit at all without them. Besides buttons, not desirable as different nodules and weaves, this will lead to confusion in the relationship. The nodules are allowed only during fitting, any element with them must be put under the dress to protect from the eye. For the same purpose, while trying on and during the ceremony, the pin is imperceptibly attached with the head inside.
is also not necessary to allow girlfriends to correct the dress, this bad sign states that they will constantly interfere in the family life of the bride. When trying it is very important to leave the image unfinished, it is necessary to put aside any accessory – a glove, a shoe. This old sign means that the bride, who is completely dressed in a wedding outfit, is considered married.
You can’t let anyone try on their dress and accessories to avoid marital altercations. And, to avoid disagreement, the groom cannot be seen the outfit until the marriage ceremony. And in general, it is advisable not to show an outfit to anyone without unnecessary need.
Buying a wedding dress
There are many takes associated with the purchase of a wedding dress. So, the future spouse should pay for the dress. If the bride goes to buy, the payment procedure should be shifted to girlfriends or acquaintances, otherwise in the future she risks paying for family needs herself.
As for taking related days of the week, they recommend buying a fata on Tuesday, shoes on Friday, and dress itself on Wednesday. Wedding shoes should be bought necessarily with closed socks. Sandals and open shoes worn for the wedding will lead to poverty and poverty. Delivery left with the purchase of a dress cannot be spent within three months from the date of purchase, for this time it must be saved and not used.
not possible to be photographed in a dress before a wedding, it is believed that it will scare away luck and family happiness. It is necessary to store the dress until the celebration in the parent’s home, it will contribute to a long and happy married life. Iron and stitching the bride’s dress should be given to outsiders, either in the atelier, in no case to take it to the bride herself, or her mother or sister.
The bride’s dress is not only a decoration, but also her behest, so so many will accept and superstitions are observed in order to protect the girl from negativity and envious eyes. Each couple dreams of harmony and peace in marriage and honor traditions to ensure a quiet marriage. Nor should the signs be taken too seriously and given up some details in favor of superstition. The wedding is the bride’s day and the outfit should be to her heart.