Preparation for baptisms Preparation
for a child’s baptism is a responsible process during which certain traditions and rules must be observed. Preparing for the sacrament must be both the parents of the baby and his future godmother. For a child to be accepted into the bosom of the Church, one godfather is sufficient for a boy or a godmother for a girl. The choice of godparents must be treated with the utmost seriousness, as they will take care of the godchild on an equal footing with his birth parents.
It is believed that it is the godfather and mother who are responsible for the spiritual upbringing of the baby and his Christian growing up.
It is usually customary to carry out this rite in the period from the 8th to 40th day of the life of an infant who is going to be baptized, because it is at this time that he comes under the protection of the Lord and is purified from original sin. In antiquity, this period was caused by the early mortality of young children from disease, and an unbaptized child was condemned to the death of his soul. Choosing godparents, you need to decide on the place and date of christenings. Baptism can be held in any church corresponding to the religion of the parents, but it is necessary to negotiate with the priest in advance. When choosing a church, it is advisable to be guided by your personal feelings from the place and the lady. If everything suits, the priest will give detailed instructions on preparation for the rite and answer all the questions.
All present at the baptism rite should look appropriate: women need to cover their head with a handkerchief and wear a medium-length skirt, and men need a suit or other appropriate attire in the church. All participants of baptism must have on themselves a cross. Before the rite, it is advisable to clarify whether photo- and videotaping of this momentous event is permitted in the church, since not all clergy approve such interference in such an intimate act.
Since the baptism must be permanently on the body of the child from the moment of baptism, it is necessary to take into account the size and material of this church attribute.
Clothing for the christening of the baby should be light and comfortable. As best as possible for this rite fit special christening shirts and towels. They are often left to memory because there is a belief that they can alleviate the condition of a sick child who needs to be rubbed with a damp baptismal towel.